2013年7月21日星期日

周末感言

对周末,我是又爱又恨。
我对周末的规划是这样的。
稚童的周末。没有选择,只能和家人出外吃早餐。吃大人叫的食物、喝大人叫的饮料!
年少的周末。喜欢。因为可以放松,暂时放开功课的压力。。。
拍拖的周末。也喜欢。可以和心爱的人逛街、找吃、看戏、去公园。最开怀的是,可以撒娇。
上班族的周末。偶尔也到办公室赶工。
有孩子的周末。带孩子去公园消耗体力、逛百货公司享受空凋。
中年的周末。在家收拾。
一年是有52个星期天。我荒废了多少个周末?又真正用了多少个周末?我在多少个周末里在百货公司里买了多少东西。。。中年的周末收拾家,才发觉到这么多个周末,我买了很多东西,一直在收了很多东西。有用没有用就这样收作。
天啊!看看这个,要丢,很可惜。细细看,都是不值钱的东西, 只是有回忆价值而已。
从今开始就简单过日子。去超级市场,用眼睛买东西。
买该买的,买了新的,就要丢掉旧的。



2013年7月7日星期日

亲情、温情

早上出去吃早餐,遇见朋友谈起老人生活。
我们都认同,在大伙生活周边老人的起居饮食的状况还不是那么差。以后就不敢断定了。
倘若家庭人口越来越少,或甚至是单口家庭,以后这单子或单女就得独自照顾两老。子女若远走他国工作,或遗弃父母,独处的老人逐渐是社会问题。
不过,摊开报纸,报道有些乐龄人士没有天伦之乐、家里没有亲情,社会有心人士挺身相助的新闻是有的。有温情的人还是有。值得鼓舞的是,有些社会团体有特别单位专门负责老人的起居饮食。
值得一提的是,放下老人不理,是天理所不能容之事!

2013年7月6日星期六

out of topic

Was at Bintulu Hospital last few days, visited my 76 years old brother in law who he was admitted due to weak heart and breathing difficulties. 
Have been there for 3 days in and out of the hospital and i capture this scene.
I know i am out of topic but l like share it with you all. Cheers!

2013年7月1日星期一

my arithmetic of life

Last Sunday was the 1st week that i have to get through without my lovely girls. To others, its a hurray! 
To me, it's not. I miss my girls very much. 
But with the modern information technology in a series of free application on smartphones, it is much easier and convenient as compared to many years my mom's era. 
Now i can have WhatsApp, WeChat and FB with my girls whom i see they are near and yet they are far away. 
I told Jean, I miss both her and the sister. 
She replied me in FB messages:"U are free now, and is good experience that should go out with fz, experience single life." 
I shared with her that it is first time that we have to be parted after 20 years living together, caring each other and love one another. 
She replied:"no la.. deducted ur working time.. i think we together only ten years....." 
I laughed reading her message. 
Jean is very calculative. She is right. As a workaholic mom, i agreed with her calculation on my arithmetic life. 
I love my family, i love my girls, i love my job...
Arithmetic calculation...+, −,  x,  ÷ ,we cannot get 100 marks for all in our life.

妈妈